Preparing for your child’s first dental visit

The American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry recommends taking your child to the dentist no later than 1 year old. This is for the dentist to check if your child’s teeth development is on track and also if you are properly taking care of your child’s teeth. Here are some tips on how to make that 1st dental appointment stress-free for both the parent and the child.

1. Prepare your child (if possible)

For pre schoolers, prepare by giving him or her a general idea of what to expect. Explain why it is important to go to the dentist through books, music or role playing. Build excitement and understanding. Let them know of the appointment just the night before. Tell them that a nice tooth doctor will just count his or her teeth and check for any sugarbugs and tooth worms that may cling on their teeth. Try not to go into too much detail. Leave it up to the dentists to explain the step-by-step procedure. Do not use the words “pain”, “drill”, “hurt”, “shot” or “needle” because this will make their imagination go wild and increases their anxiety.

However, most younger children (3 years old and below) might not be able to fully understand the idea of going to the dentist. They may be reluctant during their 1st visit but scheduling a regular visit will gradually expose the child and be more accustomed to the dental setting.

2. Prepare yourself

Discuss your questions and concerns with the dentist. Keep your own negative feelings in check (if you have any) as children can easily pick this up. Parents need to give moral support by staying calm during the appointment.

2. Prepare the dentist

Tell the dentist if your child tends to be stubborn, defiant, anxious, or fearful in certain situations or how they responded during their previous dental visit. Certain behaviors may be linked to your child's age.

As mentioned, children 3 years old and under are expected to be defiant while older children will most likely cooperate.